Happy Christmas
Regular readers know that I am very bad at getting Christmas cards out on time. This year I think I managed it with about 70% of UK friends, but zilch in the international list. I do love getting them, though. I’m always amazed at quite how many friends I have. I usually compensate with lots of letters in the New Year, and surprise presents at random moments. It’s the same with birthdays, I’m afraid.
When I was a child, we had a maiden aunt – a remarkable and wonderful woman, who always, absolutely dependably, forgot all our birthdays. But at some random time of year – May, or July, or November – a big parcel would arrive full of presents. They might say "Happy Birthday", or "Happy Christmas", regardless of the time of year. It seemed madly exciting to us to get a completely unexpected present just when life was going through a tedious moment. It was always books – she taught English literature and was absolutely up to date on the latest releases – and they were always wonderful…
the rest of this story appears in Beginnings and Endings




oh everyone needs an aunty margaret – what whimsy! she’s an inspiration, thank you for sharing her with us.
merry christmas maggi!
My kind of aunt! Merry Christmas……..
What a wonderful memory!
I want to be like her too
What’s ‘on time’? A few years ago we decided to recognise Christmas as the 12 day feast it’s supposed to be and stopped worrying whether the cards arrived before Dec 25, the aim being to get them to arrive sometime during the 12 days. We told everyone in an enclosed note what we were doing and that it was part of de-stressing Christmas and told them they were welcome to do likewise.
What’s ‘on time’? A few years ago we decided to recognise Christmas as the 12 day feast it’s supposed to be and stopped worrying whether the cards arrived before Dec 25, the aim being to get them to arrive sometime during the 12 days. We told everyone in an enclosed note what we were doing and that it was part of de-stressing Christmas and told them they were welcome to do likewise.
what a fantastic memory – love it